Nigerian singer, Tems, has made a surprising revelation about her personal life, stating that she has never been in love.
In an interview on the Flow With Korty show, the 28-year-old artist shared her thoughts on love, disagreeing with the common phrase “Love is Blind.”
According to Tems, love is not a blind feeling, but a conscious decision made with one’s eyes wide open. She emphasized that true love is a choice, and people often mistake infatuation for the real thing.
Tems expressed her desire to experience deep and real love, but wants it to be a conscious decision, not a blind feeling. She believes that true love means accepting someone’s flaws and still choosing to be with them.
In her words, “I haven’t been in love. Loving someone for me is more of ‘I see you and I still want to be in your life. Even though you annoy me sometimes, I choose you and I choose you.’ I would like to be in love, to experience something deep but really real not blind. I don’t believe that love is blind, I think if you really love someone you’re loving them with your eyes open.”
“I feel like people get infatuated and they call that falling in love. If you’re blind that is not love. Love is when you’ve seen the person, their yansh is open and you’re like ‘I still want it. I still want that.’ I want someone to see my goods and be like, ‘Yeah, give me some of that,” She added.
This candid revelation has sparked interesting conversations about the nature of love and relationships.
